Commit to Your Personal Best

Always a work in progress, I reference this popular book's teachings often. I grew up a feisty and vocal girl because I thought it was necessary to protect myself and survive but realized toning it down had much better outcomes. Then I often leaned into too much to taking on the burden of guilt when others were feisty with me. It's always a balancing act and I am on the tightrope, determined to get to the other side from my heart.

While navigating our Fusion's future during a delicate and important shift for our community I spent much time pausing, thinking and communicating. Realizing we all process and respond to change differently, I have needed to reflect more and take my time when unsure. Sometimes I think I got it right, other times, maybe not. Everyone has their own needs and it's difficult to always predict what to say and still accomplish what a leader must say and do. There is a variety of individual people and their needs unique, so I needed to consider in Fusion's future and a hopeful peace of heart and mind are forthcoming.

I discovered these simple 4 Agreements as a guide after my first read in 2017. I wish I found it when first published 20 years earlier and saved myself and others some misunderstandings, unfavorable emotions and relationships that were affected. I struggled with taking things personally and making assumptions leading to misunderstandings.

Ancient Toltec wisdom for modern times. We can apply these Agreements to help heal past interactions and ensure more harmony for the future. It may take revisiting a friend, family member or co-worker to discuss with a new perspective from the heart. And courage to correct and apologize when appropriate while honoring yourself.

In summary:

Be Impeccable with Your Word with truth and love, avoiding gossip, hurtful results and more. A calm voice and timing matters. Follow through with what you agree to.

Don't Take Anything Personally and realize your perception rarely matches another's reality. Time for listening helps you understand more. Let them finish their thoughts and take on only what you need to own. Then move on and forward.

Don't Make Assumptions and instead ask questions and be clear about sharing your purpose to minimize misunderstandings. We don't always match their thoughts and needs.

Always Do Your Best choosing the best time and frame of mind for action to minimize second guessing later. Emotions and urgency may be challenging so prepare and plan accordingly.

Committed to my Personal Best,

Gina

Fusion Owner, Registered Yoga Teacher, Reiki Master Teacher, R.N.

P.S.

News Flash! I will be hosting a Fusion Explorers Book Club & Tea starting in August with location, date and time to be announced after I receive your levels of interest. We can dive into this book more or others. So, drop me a line or give me a call. Phones are forwarded to me after hours and after the 30th.