For the Mothers of Another

ARE YOU A MOTHER OF ANOTHER?

Cecelia, my mom was very much a typical Italian raised American mother. She was a great cook, a friend to all, full of energy and spark, emotionally strong, had a great sense of humor, always teaching me ways to do something the "right way", and a friend to all who would accept her sincere hospitality. But, if you crossed her family, watch out! Ok, so I may have stereotyped her, please forgive me.

Mom was a great cook! Sunday dinner was macaroni and gravy (we didn't call it pasta and sauce), Monday was soup and Friday was some sort of fish, my least enjoyable at the time. I understand now why she entered her 80s insisting we go out to dinner. I can still hear her say, "I don't want to see anymore pots and pans or dirty dishes in my kitchen!" Disappointed to miss the aroma and flavors of her homemade marinara, we respectfully obliged.

Mom's words of wisdom got me through tough times..."Go take a shower, you'll feel better" or with a non-chalant tone, "Gina, when are you going to let it go, there's nothing you can do about it?" as I fiercely thought and fought otherwise. Now I realize the error in my ways as I prolonged the inevitable making myself miserable. I understand what she meant as I was wasting valuable time worrying or fretting over a situation instead of moving on and enjoying life.

Since Mom's passing in 2019 I pick up where she left off on my own maternal journey. I am more aware of my role to honor her by sharing all the great ways she taught me to be a good mother. Not just for my son, but her way of showing up for others with a special type of Mother's unconditional love.

On my journey to understand the beauty of a woman's heart, I have met and am truly grateful to know many who show that same motherly love and wisdom for others, regardless if they have children. They show up by sincerely listening, sharing their time and wisdom, their laughter, and helpful generosity. They eagerly love their plants, pets, and nature. I treasure our time together.

I believe all women possess a great Mother-to-Another in some way with our acts of kindness and service to another. A random phone call, text, greeting card, walk or meal together, or whatever. Today and everyday let's celebrate ALL of them! Reach out and thank them from your kind heart to theirs.

Happy Mother's Day

Much gratitude for our Mothers of Another,

Gina